I’m presently being harassed by someone I know who has hacked into someone else’s or my blog. Due to a considerable amount of emotional abuse and manipulation I felt the need to send them an email cutting all but professional ties yesterday.. to protect both myself, my daughter and my community.

You see, an unknown blogger appeared on one of my posts, seemingly mimicking my style of political discourse.. then they sent an unsolicited comment which was very sensual about me. ( which is odd and inappropriate because we have never interacted in that capacity. ) I thought .. how odd… this person seems to know my writing well… and is crossing boundaries.. boundary crossing is one of the reasons why I had to send them an email yesterday. To which they insisted that I had to continue to speak to them. So as much as possible I am going No Contact.

When I attempted to go to their blog. It appeared to be brand new with no posts or followers. Within minutes the blog magically had a small following and a couple posts. Not sure of what was going on I commented my concerns and stated that if it happened to have been the real owner of the blog, that they needed to not comment on mine like that again. I thought it was grace.. before actually reporting them.

Immediately the responses came, ( tons of them.. last count at around 9.. I’m not looking at my notifications right now… all of which included the exact same words that I had included in my email to the person whom I asked to leave me alone last night. Specific .. words and phrases that I used in my email.. and that I have posted on my IG. ( Not about them.. just my own personal posts.. ) all of this was directed towards me in an illogical mish mash of accusatory word salad. No logic. No true pointing out my flaws.. ( because hey.. we all have issues) no truth at all.. it was very odd because they tried to do it under the guise of how upset they were about me asking them to not comment specifically about how they imagine me sensually in my yard. Crazy things like how I was censoring them and how if I didn’t want them to critique then I shouldn’t post publicly. Not sure about how coming onto me on my blog became a critique.. that I had to accept … but apparently my refusal to accept it is not consistent with the “ narrative” that I have to accept if I truly advocate for change and vulnerable people… according to them i am a hypocrite and a coward because I am too afraid to stand for what I believe in if I don’t accept their strange random advances.. ( the last I checked , a person has the right to expect to be respected when someone makes unsolicited sexual comments about them. ) But what do I know? According to them I’m a “ stupid bitch”. But it appears that my boundary means that I am a “ fake” , that my stance for wanting the homeless to be treated with dignity is not legitimized unless I will accept such advances.. it somehow goes along with their understanding of some odd personal world order… ( or just a wounded soul suffering from narcissistic rage… and using any excuse to try to destroy me.. at least that’s what I’ve read that they try to do… and that’s got to be tough.. if.. dear angry retaliatory one, you are reading this.. yes I know who you are… I think you wanted me to know due to your specific references from my email.. or if you are one of this individual’s flying monkeys… please understand that your outburst has confirmed to me the need for the stances and boundaries that I needed to make in the email I sent you yesterday .. ) I hope you know that despite the forces within you that make you feel like you must control and own others… you are actually valuable just within your own being.. so valuable that you don’t have to act like this to matter… even without anyone else to overpower. Because you do matter you know. I pulled away because I matter too.. and no one should try to own another.. breathe in.. breathe out.. the pain of this narcissistic rage will pass… and see.. I didn’t mention your name..,not trying to hurt you.. but truly .. you need to behave yourself..)

So my dear bloggers, I wanted to give you this heads up … if you see any strange or harassing comments directed towards me.. this is what’s going on… Stephanie and I are presently working on documenting and trying to find a way to block…

also.. would you please pray for Stephanie, myself and this hurting individual. Stephanie and I just want peace… and for the world to be a better place.. which comes with the right to autonomy which includes our own boundaries.