This is one of the irrational comments I received from the stalker who informed me that I was not allowed to tell them to not comment about how they pictured me sensually in my yard again.

I took a pic of it when it first began to send to Stephanie. ( We often text throughout the day… the whole mother/ daughter Bestie thing) So odd.. I wasn’t looking for applause.. just wanted it to stop.

It makes me wonder. What happened to the #Me Too movement? How is it that individuals now believe that they have the right to approach you sensually.. and that you have no right to tell them to stop it? How can any rational person act as though they have been wronged when they are told by someone else to not talk to them sexually? What makes them think that after they attempt to dominate you in this way that they can demand that you respond to their strange questions and insults? ( I stopped responding after about the third or fourth crazy comment. … they just wouldn’t stop.. ) How can they believe it to the extent that they fly into a crazy rage in comment after comment demanding the right to overpower you in this? Is this how pedophiles/ rapists think? While I get that they wanted me to accept their initially odd comment.. the force behind trying to overpower me in it seems just so… off.

What gives them the right to express themselves and takes away your right to defend yourself? ( the stalker also told me that I was just playing victim.. that I was fearful.. and a fake… that I was not hurt … that I was not protecting myself etc etc.. … etc etc) So many abusive crazy comments came at me so fast..

Sorry I’m posting about it so much.. it’s just that there’s so much to unpack… and it is empowering to continue speaking rather than shutting down like the stalker wanted me to..

Thanks for your support.. you have no idea how much it means right now.

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  1. Sister, this is heartbreaking to read. The devil will always try to steal, kill, and destroy those who do good and stand for truth. Read John 10:10. But you are not alone, God is your shield, your strength, and your defender. Lean on Him in this dark season, and He will give you peace that no enemy can take away.

    Keep trusting, keep standing, for the Lord fights your battles. Stay strong in His love. 🙏

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  2. What a horrible situation that you find yourself in due to this man’s innappropriate, entitled and dangerous behavior. Deep breath in. Deep breath out. And what a waste of your precious time! I am glad you are documenting what is happening and starting a police report although I am very sorry that it is happening at all.

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